Hi all. Some of you may know I have had problems with my in laws. we have been trying to sort them recently. Its the hardest thing I have ever done. Felt physically sick & extremely vulnerable but thats another post!
What I want to ask is how can I get my in laws to see that if they want to have my 3 year old ID twin boys on their own without my dh & I being around they need to agree that they won't smack them. i think my mil will agree but my FIL is adament that if he needed to he would smack my boys. Because of this I wont let them have them. My dh & I have never smacked or even taped our boys hands, bottoms etc... Distraction & to some extent reasoning works fine.
My Fil says that I am being inflexible and that it is my way or nothing else but I don't see why I should be expected to compromise on this. My dh is totally behind me on this one and has let his views known to but it is still falling on deaf ears. If anyone has any brain waves to help I would be most grateful.
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twins2cute · 18/06/2005 01:42
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