DTDs are almost 4. I am very keen to encourage them to make their own friends and would have no problem taking them to separate playdates. They go to nursery together in the mornings but stay on different afternoons to allow one-to-one time at home and independence at nursery.
Last week nursery was telling me that T1 (the shyer, more reserved of the two) is particularly close to one little girl and I was planning to invite her over on a day when T2 stays at nursery. Problem is, this little girl has just invited T2 over. T1 is going to be devestated because this really is her friend and she is being passed over in favour of T2. I am wondering whether the parent intended to invite T1 and got the name wrong?
I have no problem with one DTD not being invited to a playdate but in this situation it feels wrong to accept. Any thoughts?
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Separate playdates - what do I do?
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4PlusMum · 19/03/2014 10:14
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