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I just want to find out. I'm Finnish (a Sami/Laplander to be precise) and I'm now living in Stockholm. My DH is from Gothenburg, but lived in England from aged three. Where are you from and do you still live there? (I'd ask this in Finnish, but I just want to find out about people from all over Scandinavia, not just Finland).