Hi my DH is ghanian and I am british and am concerned that his parents want to dictate to my 1 year son. There are many traditions in the Ghanian culture when my son was born there was a naming ceremony which I understand is just like a christening. I don't mind my son learning about the culture but find that whenever I ask a question like why is there a naming cermony or why are you speaking to my son in your mother tongue when I don't it is as if I should not question why, this is the way it is and this is how we work. Being a new mother my possesive streak is strong how should I tackle my DH family as it happens with all of them. They are nice enough but it is a bit annoying . i.e I will go to MIL house and they will talk in mother tongue to son fine this is not an issue if you explain what you are talking about . I sit there at a lost as this is not even discussed. How should you approach this ?
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