My MIL had a stroke almost two years ago and is now quite ill. She lives with my BIL and his wife at the moment.
When she was first ill, she asked my dh to put her gold into a bank box, which he has done and everyone knows where it is and that it is safe.
My BIL's wife said years ago that my MIL's gold will be divided between her sons when she dies (she has 2 sons, and 2 daughters as well), because that's what Hindus do. I don't know, as I'm white and my dh isn't sure, its not what we would do, we'd share it out equally between the children, but if that's the tradition he wants to respect that.
However, recently my dh's sister has said that he should make sure all 4 of them get equal shares of her gold, when the time comes. Now I'm concerned that there will be a huge argument (this isn't the sort of family to sit round and discuss things) and my dh will be stuck in the middle of it. The gold isn't very valuable, its the sentimental value of it.
Can any of you help me out here? Advice on this would be much appreciated!
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widge · 23/01/2006 10:11
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