Very early for me to even be thinking of this but I want honest opinions please. I had my first mc 10 years ago at 12 weeks - it was a mmc as baby had not grown since about 6 weeks. I then had my daughter with no trouble at all 7 years ago. I then had two early miscarriages at around 6 weeks and then fell pregnant with my son who I lost at 23 weeks due to a subchorionic haemotoma. After last time consultant told me it was extremely bad luck and no reason for me not to try again but I am high risk because I am now 40 and have had high blood pressure since delivering my son. On my 40th birthday I got the wonderful present of falling pregnant again, have had three early scans and all going swimmingly until miscarrying again at 12+3 today. Thankfully I didn't tell my daughter she might be a big brother or sister so have saved ourselves that heartache. So would you try again? Assuming consultant says it is fine to or would you give up and accept life with just the one child? It took us 2 years to conceive this time so I might even fall pregnant again however I said to my husband when I fell pregnant this time that whatever the outcome I would call it a day but now that that day has come I am just not sure.....I feel so selfish to consider it as I nearly died with my son and put my family through hell plus this time I have spent the last six weeks suffering with m/s that my daughter is getting really concerned as to why I am allways unwell. Honest opinions please, thank you
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LunaticFringe ·
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