I had a missed-miscarriage 4 weeks ago and although I feel I have 'gotten over' the sad part of it, emotionally I don't feel as though I have, or ever will have, the energy to go through the 1st trimester again.
I know that to have a baby, I will have to do it and it never occured to me just how emotionally draining another pregnancy would be after a MC. I don't think I could bear the anxiety and the whole physical strain. The thing is, I've always wanted at least 2 children and I don't want a huge age gap between them.
DS is 18mths and there would have been a 25mths age gap. I would have been 13 weeks now and it just feels like I've wasted so much time and energy on something that would never be. I felt like trying again quite soon after, initially but as more time goes on, the more I dread the whole pregnancy business.
Please tell me this is normal? I really wanted this baby and couldn't wait to get pregnant so feeling like this is alien to me.
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I don't know how I'll ever feel ready again.
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TheBreastmilksOnMe · 07/04/2010 20:25
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