I'm due to go back to work next week and today anxiety has hit me full in the face. I am terrified. I miscarried at 11wks4dys, a few people at work know but I've kept what's happened quiet (not many people I feel I can talk to at work). I fell off my bike on they way home from work (the day before I went for the scan, consultant said that the fall had nothing to do with the miscarriage but I've beaten myself up over that. I thought I was alright but today I feel sick at the thought of getting back on my bike and seeing all those people at work. I'm being hounded by the office busy body (not my friend and certainly not someone I would confide in) - she left 4 messages on my phone (mobile and home) to find out what's wrong with me and she TURNED up at my house yesterday morning (9.30am) and shouted through my letter box. I was such a coward, I hid upstairs in my bedroom, whilst my dd was downstairs watching cartoons (she's 2.5) and could clearly be seen from the front window. Why won't she leave me alone? I thought I was going to be sick hearing her shouting at me. I thought I was OK!!!!!!! To top it all my husband is really stressed at work and I can't talk to him about this. I rang him to say she was banging on the door and he told me I had to just answer the door and that he was in a meeting! Stupidly I felt so rejected by him. I feel rubbish today...
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