I hope I'm posting this in the right place. I've just heard a close friend has lost her baby at 18 weeks. I'm so shocked and sad for her - she had to go through labour and deliver the baby as well. Her sister let me know and said she is keeping herself busy but she said she looks exhausted. I want to help her, but also realise she might not want lots of fuss. I'm going to drop a card through the door just to let her know I'm thinking of her and if she wants to talk she knows where I am.
She struggled to conceive so she was so excited about the pregnancy, it doesn't seem fair. She also lost her father earlier in the year and for this to happen just before Christmas as well is just horrible.
Do you think there is anything I can do to make it any easier for her? Probably not I suppose, but I just feel a bit helpless.
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My friend has just miscarried - I want to help her
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iwouldgoouttonight · 23/12/2009 13:53
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