Hi all looking for some help and advice and if anyone else has gone through the same. I have just had my 3rd miscarriage, went for a private scan at 10wks and was told they could see no heartbeat and the foetus only measured at 5wks 5days. Was booked in for a scan a week later at my local NHS and I should of been 11wks and they confirmed they could see no heartbeat and it looked like the foetus had gone. This has totally devasted me because this time I thought it was different, had no bleeding, no pain and felt really pregnant so to be told this has been totally shocking. With my previous 2 miscarriages I decided to have D&C. This time I want it to come away naturally but I think I am going to have to go in for a D&C because I still have had no bleeding or pain. I get scanned in 2wks to see. The nurse has said they won't look into testing me because all miscarriages have been different and I am just unlucky. My 1st m/c was with twins, had a scan at 7wks and they could only see one heart beat, 2wks later was scanned again and no heartbeats detected, decided to opt for D&C. 2nd M/c I started bleeding at 11wks, went for a scan and I only had the sac there which they called a blighted ovum, I waited to see if it would come away naturally and it didnt, went back 2wks later and sac had grown so had to go back in for D&C. 3rd m/c foeus stopped developing at 5wks 5days. Because all m/c have been different they wont test. Am I just unlucky or do I need some tests to find out why this keeps happening. I have an identical twin who has had a normal twin pregnancy. Just don't no what to do or think? Shall I try again or try to get some tests? I am nearly 31.
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3rd Miscarriage but all have been different. so they won't test me.
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lulu78 · 20/10/2009 16:56
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