I'm 39 weeks and trying for a VBAC (posting all over the place about it tonight, in fact!)
I have been in early labour once this week, which stopped for various reasons (some mysterious).
I once lost a baby at 4 months and delivered it naturally at home. DD was born by elective section, so the miscarriage is my only experience of labour.
When contractions were coming, I had to relax not just to deal with the discomfort, but to remind myself that this was a live baby coming this time, and that the pains this time would be bringing me closer to joy, rather than grief.
Anyone else dealt with this? Did you have any wise words for yourself, mantras, etc?
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Going into labour - what's it like after a miscarriage?
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SmallScrewCap · 16/08/2009 22:08
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