I have 2 lovely dc and my family was complete. Then I fell unexpectantly pregnant and to my shame was absolutely devastated. However after getting over the initial shock we began to look forward to this baby make plans etc. Then 2 weeks ago I mc at 8 weeks. This has left me destraught and so confused I don't know what to do. This is my 3rd mc and it doesn't get any easier. After each mc I have had a baby but this time I don't know. My family was complete before but it doesn't feel it now and I feel I want another baby but I didn't before iyswim. Everyone says it was complete before and I have 2 lovely boys and I should put this behind me, be thankful for them and move on. I just don't know anymore I feel so confused. I think peoples sympathy is abit limited because I have 2 children already also everyone who knows me knows it wasn't planned and so don't understand how it could affect me so much not even my dh understands. So confused about all this apologise if it sound abit rambling!
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Devastated 2 weeks on at miscarrying my unplanned but wanted baby and so confused.
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Sails · 22/02/2009 22:17
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