Hello everyone, I recently lost a baby at 17 weeks. We do not yet know why and may never know, but I already have 1 DS (prem)and have previously been told I have mild antiphospholipid antibodies - was on aspirin and folic acid for this pregnancy. Was also told this baby had quite high nuchal - 3.5mm. So it could be anything or nothing.
Anyway found out from the Counsellor that post-mortem has taken place. We requested that the baby be cremated by the hospital but we asked to collect the ashes. Initially when we lost the baby I did not want to go to the 'hospital' funeral - where all the miscarried babies from a certain time period are remembered together at a special service. I was trying to pretend it was like an early miscarriage and did not want to think of it like a baby at all. After I had to give birth to it, and I produced milk, and I have its hand & footprints, now I think it would be nice to say goodbye. Does anyone have any experience of this sort of service? Sorry for rambling on - any advice gratefully received!
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Hospital funeral for miscarried babies- anyone with any experience?
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ephrinedaily · 19/02/2009 11:32
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