Sorry for all the posts, i am finding this the easiest place to 'talk'. I am miscarrying now as expected, the pain is strong even with maximum dose of painkillers (cuprofen and paramol). About an hour ago i forced myself to have a shower and when i looked down there was a clot in the bottom of the shower. I bent down to wipe it away but something about the shape made me look closer. The clot was my baby. About 1cm long, dark bits each side of the head, little flipper like feet, tail and lumps that i think were arm buds. There was another smaller dark red clot attached - placenta?? I have sadi my good byes, told them how much they are loved and that i wish they had grown a little bigger before being born and wrapped it in tissue and don't know what to do with it now . I feel really numb about it. I haven't cried or anything just very matter of fact i guess which is odd. I can't tell DH as i know he would be really distressed and ould rather not know but i would like to do something myself with my little one. I have no idea what though. I just needed to talk to someone about this i guess, people that will understand and not be freaked out by it. I guess there must still be the sac to pass now, i haven't had any clots larger than the baby yet. What will happen next? How long is it likely to be before the sac passes and the pain eases?
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fairywing · 28/01/2009 13:20
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