I go to a toddler's coffee morning with my daughter (she's 2) and always chat with another mum there who has a child of the same age. 2 weeks ago she seemed upset and tearful and she told me that over the past year she has had 3 miscarriages, the latest one only being a few days earlier. My heart went out to her but we are only acquaintances and I was not sure how to react. What makes the situation even more difficult is that I had a baby six months ago - who is also at the group, obviously.
So, two weeks have passed since she told me and every week I casually ask how she is (as you do) but there's no mention of the mcs or anything else but she still seems upset and of course, I have a baby literally hanging off me the whole time, it feels a little uncomfortable.
Every person and situation is different, clearly, but wanting to be the best 'acquaintance!' I should be, I thought I'd ask people who may have been in a similar situation advice on what - if anything - to do.
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Advice on social situations with people who've had a miscarriage
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marjean · 21/10/2008 20:05
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