Hey guys, I thought talking to others who may be in a similar situation may help, so here goes..
In April this year I found out I was pregnant, although it wasn't planned, myself and my partner were so happy. Then in late May I started bleeding slightly. I went down to the hospital for an internal scan where it was diagnosed as a missed miscarriage. The way they described it was that my body hadn't realised that I'd misscarried yet, and they told me they weren't sure when I'd eventually miscarry but it would probably be within the next few weeks. For the next 3 weeks I didn't leave the house as I was so scared it would happen whilst I was out. I because very depressed during those weeks, just waiting to miscarry. When it eventually happened, although it was an awful experience, it was almost a relief in a way. I could now go back to work and get my life back on track. It's now been 6 months since that happened, and I'm still not over it. I think about it every day and it upsets me so much. To make matters worse me and my partner (we were together for 5 years) are no longer together. It was his choice to end it, he was finding it difficult to cope after the miscarriage too, and with the stresses of work it had had an impact on our relationship.
I just feel so low and sad, I've lost my partner and baby. I was hopeful that after the miscarriage we would try again, but now all hope for that is lost. My partner just doesn't seem to care about me anymore.
Sorry I don't mean to ramble on, but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
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