Wondering where to go from here?!

[Misskittycat16]

Since July 2015 my DP and I have been through 3 MMCs.
I have had nearly EVERY blood test under the sun, genetic testing of the last pregnancy tissue and a scan- all of which have come back completely normal. The consultant at Tommy's Recurrent Miscarriage Clinic basically said its just bad luck no shit, don't bother paying for any investigations (we were considering going private) and told us to 'crack on' when we are ready. This feels like setting ourselves up to fail before we even start ttc again.
Anybody had any experience/been through this? What did you do? I'm struggling to get my head around it all.