Just had an early miscarriage at 5 weeks. It was going be my second baby, I have an 18 month old son. It's such an early stage of pregnancy, I know it's not like losing a baby later on, but I'm feeling guilty that I'm finding it hard now to look after my toddler at the moment, because I feel sad, zoned out and irritable. Any tips for coping with getting through each day, especially with a toddler, after miscarriage? I feel I need to do some things to try to lift my spirits a bit, but I am finding it hard to plan anything as I feel a bit paralysed. I know getting out of the house would help, though. We don't have any family nearby to help. My Mum told me "it's fabulous that it happened so early on and you don't need D&C", and just tells me that it's not a big deal. I know she is trying to comfort me in her own way, but this is not helpful and I am dreading her coming to stay next week because of this.
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