Hi,
I'm new to all this but thought it might help to let it all out and maybe share experiences with other mums.
I found out that I was pregnant a little over a week ago. Although I already knew. I had all the same symptoms as I had previously when pregnant with my little girl. My husband and I were over joyed to learn that I was pregnant we had been Ttc for a while now and it was just the news we had been wishing for. 6 days after finding out I was pregnant I began spotting and having cramps. I called my local EPAU and they told me this was implantation bleeding. I carried on as normal but I knew something wasn't right. As the day went on the spotting became bleeding and cramps became worse. I was sent home from work and that evening decided I knew my body and knew this wasn't implantation bleeding. I took myself off to the EPAU where it was confirmed that I was no longer pregnant. I had an early stage miscarriage. The Dr was very matter of fact about it and told me that I was no longer pregnant, don't be too disheartened I already have had one successful pregnancy so I can do it and ushered me out of the room to see the next patient.
I left the EPAU in a daze. I was give no information, no follow up appointment, no empathy just was told I had an early stage miscarriage at 5 weeks.
I know it was early on in my pregnancy but I couldn't have wanted that pregnancy (and that baby as I seen it) any more than I did.
I'm grieving for a baby I had only known about for a week but it's hard. I am so confused as to why the Dr was so dismissive and hasn't provided me with any care suggestions.
I am upset beyond belief but my beautiful little 2 year old girl is my saving grace!
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Sariegracie5 · 26/01/2016 18:09
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