Hi,
I don't know if this is the right place to post this. I feel pregnant whilst I was in a very violent and volatile relationship almost 5 years ago. We already had a 5 month old and despite being on the pill I conceived. My now ex partner told me that if I didn't have an abortion he'd throw me down the stairwell ( we lived on the top floor of a block of flats) and abort the baby that way, one way or another he wasn't having another baby. So I did it. I had an abortion and gad a marina coil fitted at the same time. He hit me when I cried after the abortion and i learned not to mention it pretty quickly.
We've been apart for 3 years thank god but I still grieve for my baby. I cried today and imagine what she'd look like or how she'd look. I don't know how to move on. I had my coil refitted today and it bought it all home again. Do I have the right to grieve the baby?
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do i have the right to grieve???
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stucky · 20/10/2015 17:07
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