I went for my 12 week scan today. Was given the devastating news that there was no heartbeat and the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. My head is all over the place at the moment. They gave me options of how to miscarry and I opted for medical management after the Dr said this is what they mostly recommend first. I wanted some time to process the news so booked it for Friday. I'm now worried about it being a brutal experience and the amount of pain. Also don't think I could pass out my baby like this. Will my waters break? Will it feel like labour? I'm now thinking I should go for the surgical option instead. I have a DD to look after and although I have loads of support I'm worried about it being a long drawn out process. I'm an emotional wreck and just can't think straight.
Would appreciate experiences from others who have unfortunately had to go through this. Did you have medical management and how was it? Is surgery the better option?
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DizzyMerry · 23/09/2015 14:10
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