Hi I've just found out that my pregnancy is a blighted ovum. We had been trying for dc2 for four years, gave up and then I got pregnant so it all feels really cruel. I had an early scan today due to a backlog at the hospital but in my heart of heart I just knew things wouldnt go smoothly though I had no symptoms of miscarriage, not bleeding etc.
I have to go back tomorrow to the EPU. The sonographer said the sizes of the sac and embryo are just under official guidelines for saying that the pregnancy has failed but she was thankfully honest and said it is highly unlikely to be good news. I know from my rough dates as well that it isn't good.
Sorry I'm waffling- in a daze really. Anyway I wanted to know what to expect. I really don't want to wait for it to naturally happen or have the tablets. I would just really like it to be removed and for this to be over. Can I push for an erpc or will they encourage me to wait? I also might have to wait until next week to have another scan to confirm but I don't see any hope or point in this (I'm aware I'm not a dr). We are supposed to be taking our son away next week for half term and I know I may sound mad but I just want to stick to our plans as he knows nothing about this. I just want things to be normal. They won't be I know but I need it.
Sorry this is garbled but I just wondered if anyone could share any advice?
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Purpleprickles · 17/05/2015 13:54
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