Can't cope even after nearly a year ago

[vicki2122]

I had a miscarriage nearly a year ago now I'm still trying to get over it but it's so hard I just want my baby back

[Honeybear30]

Vicki I'm so sorry :( hope another MNetter comes along with some words of wisdom for you soon I have no experience of this, I can't think what to say to help but I'm thinking of you x

[vicki2122]

Thank you

[mrsspagbol]

I also have no wisdom but I am very sorry for your loss .

[bakingtins]

vicki how much is it affecting you day to day? My experience is that a MC is not something you ever 'get over' in terms of forgetting about it, but that the pain and the amount of time thinking about it lessens over time. For most people having a subsequent successful pregnancy is what puts them back on track. If circumstances prevent that then you can get stuck feeling robbed of what should have been. Have you thought about going for counselling to help you process it and find a way forward?

[vicki2122]

I do want counselling but don't no how to go about it

[bakingtins]

Try via your GP first, or contact the Miscarriage association. If you have a city accessible there are often charities that offer women counselling for these types of issues.

[Greyhound]

I know how you feel - I just felt I wanted my baby back :(

[vicki2122]

It's horrible feel like something is missing feel empty to

[trinipea]

Hi all. I've had 2 miscarriages and I still go through a hard time. I don't know if the second loss was a miscarriage because my water broke at 15 weeks 6days...the Eve of 16 weeks. It is so hard. I have ok days most times but still it's hard. Would anyone like to talk to me?