To those who have suffered through this or are suffering through this my heart goes out to you all. I really need some advice as the waiting is killing me.
I was diagnosed with a MMC on 20th April at 9 weeks (5mm but no heartbeat) and confirmed by another scan on 27th April at 10 weeks.
Our baby stopped developing at 6 weeks 4 days apparently. Going by their dates and my LMP (16th Feb) the baby must have died on 3rd March and it is now 8th May which is 5 weeks ago?
And here I am still waiting for the miscarriage to actually happen.
For those with experience of this horrible missed miscarriage which I had never even heard of until it happened to us - when does the bleeding start?
I have resigned myself to what has happened but there is still a small voice in my head asking if it's really true when there's no physical evidence…?
I am going back for another scan on Monday - the waiting is torture.
It took us 6 months to conceive and here I am over 9 months later still waiting to miscarry.
It seems like a terribly cruel joke when in different circumstances I could be holding my healthy baby
Our lives are on hold until we can move on from this - it sounds mad but I keep praying to see some blood each time I use the loo. I haven't bled since my last period in February.
Thanks to you all for any words of wisdom you have
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Waiting is torture - when will the bleeding start?
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EmberElftree · 08/05/2014 14:23
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