Trying again after a loss?

(4 Posts)
Tranquilitybaby Fri 02-May-14 09:52:05

Not now, it's far too soon I know, I only had my surgery on Sunday night to remove my ectopic pregnancy and left tube, but in time I'd like to try again if my hubby agrees he'd like to as well.

Just so scared it'll happen again, how do you get over that?

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jazzyjenbo Fri 02-May-14 18:46:51

I think you will always worry and will never forget the little lost one.

I had mmc in january and after first cycle started ttc again, not happened as yet.

It took that first month to grieve, you are allowed to morn your loss and try talking with your friends in rl, u'll b amazed how many may of gone through similar.

U'll never know if it will happen again, i think the chances of 2 ectopics is fairly low. Just try not to over think it and start ttc when u are both ready.

So sorry for your loss and be kind to yourself.

Forester Fri 02-May-14 19:55:33

It will get a bit easier but what's happened will change how you feel during any subsequent pregnancy.

There are threads for women TTC after MC and also for pg after MC so you may find those helpful in the coming months. (Sorry I don't have the links).

Tranquilitybaby Sun 04-May-14 13:27:47

Thank you both very much. Xx

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