I've had a MMC - should be 9 weeks now but baby died somewhere around 8 weeks. They told me that blood was pooling in the uterus and all my symptoms disappeared about a week ago so I was hopeful things would happen naturally. But so far I have no spotting or bleeding at all. I have had abdominal pain (not really cramps more a constant ache, especially after eating) for the last two days. Does anyone know - is this a sign that it might be starting soon?
I thought I was coping OK, but I'm feeling pretty rubbish now. I have a compelling reason to need this to happen before next weekend (my husband has something really important to do and there is nobody else to look after our little boy) so I have an appointment to go in for medical management on Tuesday. My husband will not be able to come with me (again because there is no one else to look after our little boy), so I will have to go alone and drive myself. They told me I will have the pessaries and lie for an hour but then go home and it will happen later, so I will be fine to drive. I just feel really sorry for myself, I'm miserable anyway and the thought of going to have this done alone is making me so sad.
Not looking for solutions, I just needed to whinge. My husband is wonderful, but he's not a talker and I feel quite alone. One of the drawbacks of not telling many people about the pregnancy I suppose.
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Fortyisthenewthirty · 06/04/2014 20:09
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