Hello All,
I am really keen to share what we are going through to see if anyone else has experienced the same to give us some much needed support about what the future may hold.
I've just had my 3rd miscarriage and finding it hard to believe we are ever going to achieve our dream of having children. I have now been pregnant 3 times in the past two years which in itself is great news however for some reason each time i miscarry at between 6-7weeks.
Since the second miscarriage we got help from fertility experts and have had just about every test possible. After the second miscarriage in May 2013 I had an ERPC and tissue was sent for analysis and it showed it was a normal pregnancy we no genetic abnormalities. Then both my husband and I were tested and we both have normal karyotyping. I have had a thrombophilia screening which was negative, checked for Natural Killer cells which came back as elevated so I was given IVIG treatment and yet our 3rd pregnancy in Dec 2013 failed again at 7 weeks. We went for the 6 week scan and there was really lively heartbeat and everything looked good but when we went back for the 7 week and 2 day scan on Thursday this week it had stopped growing and there was no heart beat. I was taking Aspirin 75 mg daily because of my high platlets, Folic Acid, 25 mg Prednisolone for NK's and also IVIG infusions and Clexane injections, Metformin and Vit D throughout.
I went yesterday for my 2nd ERPC and we have again had the tissue sent away for analysis and pray that just maybe this was sheer bad luck and maybe down to chromosone abnormality. But if not then we really dont know what to try next and wonder if maybe it's just not going to be possible for us which i really dont want to think as being a Mum is the one thing Ive wanted all my life since my Mum left me and my brother when we were 2 and 1 years old.
Please if anyone has any thoughts or experience on this let me know as we really dont want to give up but not sure how much more we can go through and it's impacting our life and happiness.
Also if anyone has any advice on surrogacy it would be much appreciated as perhaps that's what we need to think about next.
Thanks in advance and my heart goes out to anyone else that is going through a similar situation.
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