Hi all,
DP and I have been TTC for nearly 2 years, we finally got a BFP at 5+4 last Tuesday (can't believe I waited that long to test) and found out today based on repeated blood tests that the pregnancy was not viable and I began to miscarry shortly after hearing the results having been spotting for a week.
I have had some pretty bad cramps and found it difficult to stand at times but have not taken any pain killers just used a hottie bottie and had a nice long bath just before the bleeding started.
The bleeding hasn't been too heavy. Some very small tissue/clots but otherwise probably a little lighter than the periods I usually have so far just with a lot more pain.
So I would like to think about going to work tomorrow which will be an inset before the first day of term as I work in a school. I would happily take Paracetamol to manage the pain and I have a lot of things going well so wouldn't find it hard to distract myself from getting upset, after all, so many people say next month I will be very fertile. To add to this I was attacked by a stranger on the way to work last month shortly before the end of term and as news had traveled fast I think most people would be expecting me to seem a little fragile and there would be no need to explain about the MC if I got upset. My main worry is that the bleeding may get worse or I might find myself unable to manage that or the pain. I don't know what to expect.
In summary: Am I being "too brave" as my partner, family and friends have said and stay home just in case or should I think positive and crack on with life as normal?
Any advice very welcome whether you have experienced loss yourself or not. Thanks in advance Xx
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MC @6+3 Would it be sensible to go to work tomorrow?
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bugoven · 02/09/2013 20:05
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