Should I send flowers?

(28 Posts)
NarkyNamechanger Mon 12-Aug-13 18:38:40

Dsil had a miscarriage a few months ago and it is now coming up to the due date. She is also my best friend and I'm one of only a few people who even knew. We still talk about it and I know she still remembers her due date.
I'd love her to know I haven't forgotten either and that I'm thinking of her on that day (and every day) but would sending flowers be too much? Something I should leave to dbil to do? A private day between just them?
I've never had a MC so unsure on feelings here.

"Thinking of you" text. Acknowledge that she's suffering.

Definitely not flowers.

Take her dinner?

NarkyNamechanger Mon 19-Aug-13 15:30:13

I've only had a text conversation and offered to call but she sad she's not ready to talk yet. I feel so said ill admit I've had a little cry myself (but won't tell her that).

PeriodMath Mon 19-Aug-13 15:55:24

Just leave her. She won't be thinking about you or any gestures you make, it's really a non-issue. Just let them deal with it. I didn't want to pour over it with anyone either, didn't see how it would help, if anything I just wanted to get on with things and not dwell.

Anyway, you've been in touch.

Now let it go smile

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