I feel so hurt and let down by my husband. We only knew I was pregnant for 2 weeks before I started bleeding this week.
He seems to think as it was so early its nothing. He says it wouldve been better not to know. I noticed he'd searched for 'false positive pregnancy tests' on his computer like it wasn't even real.
I'm a nurse and supposed to be working sat night sun night this weekend, still bleeding and don't think I can face it but he says if I don't go in its like him just saying 'I think ill have a couple of days off work'. He says ill be fine by then.
He's normally so soft and always sympathetic about the slightest thing I can't believe he's being like this. I feel gutted about it all. Its bad enough but his attitude is just making it 10 times worse. He doesn't understand why I may be upset.
I thought he was a great husband and I imagined if I ever got pregnant with him he'd be amazing but he's been the opposite. Gutted.
I'm just expected to carry on as normal. I have 3 children and he has 2 from previous marriages so we arent desperate for more and the pregnancy came as a bit of a shock. I'm going to encourage him to have a vasectomy.
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lovelydaisies1 · 04/07/2013 09:55
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