Feel so sad to be posting here after having been on the Pregnancy forum looking forward to a February baby. How things can change in the space of a week.
Was diagnosed with a mmc on Wednesday after a second scan, I should be about 8 weeks but all there was was an empty sac so they think the pregnancy stopped at 4 weeks. Before the confirmation scan I thought I'd want an ERPC (I was expecting bad news as my hormone levels also weren't rising as they should) but was advised to let nature take its course, especially as I had a tiny bit of bleeding the day before the second scan.
I was happy to wait as to be honest I'd rather be at home than go to hospital (hate hospitals) but although the bleeding is increasingly every day it's still quite light. I know there's no way of knowing how long it'll take or what to expect, but it would be good to hear other experiences of natural mc this early on. I just want this to be over.
Also, and I know this might sound daft, I feel bad for being off work as it hasn't actually happened yet. I was off for a day and a half last week for hospital appointments. This week I've been off sick for most of the week as I couldn't face being at work waiting to mc. My boss knows what's happened and is being really understanding, there is no pressure from him at the moment to go back. My GP was also really nice and gave me a certificate to cover next week. I almost feel like I should be carrying on as normal until the heavy bleeding starts but I'm finding that difficult.
Sorry for the long ramble but it is quite therapeutic to get it all off my chest!
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moominlike · 28/06/2013 11:34
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