Hi guys
I'm looking for some advice. I was 8 weeks pregnant and had been spotting since Wednesday last week. An early scan yesterday confirmed a heart beat and we were more relaxed. But today at work I started bleeding fresh blood and another scan confirmed that there is no longer a heart beat. Devastated as kinda thought that very slim chance of MC after detecting a heartbeat at this stage. :-(
Anyway, they've booked me in for another scan on Wednesday morning just to make sure. They've given me the choice of natural, surgical or medical management. I'm still bleeding quite heavily so do you think it would be best just to let nature continue to do its thing? I'm guessing the tablets/pressurise are best for those who haven't started to MC? It's so hard as part of me wants to put this horrible experience behind me quickly and move on yet I don't know what to do for the best. I'd opt for the surgery but I can't bear the thought of a GA. Pretty lame eh considering im a nurse!
I also don't want to be out and all of a sudden lose a load of blood/clots/sac! Although I'm not sure it would happen like this.
I'm kinda hoping that when they scan again on Wed this will all be some horrible mix up and everything will be fine. Hurts like hell, my heart goes out to anyone of you that is going through this right now.
Kate xxx
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Tomkat79 · 06/05/2013 21:00
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