A year ago today

(16 Posts)
wifey6 Sun 21-Apr-13 20:37:03

foof & sadly so many others of you, so sorry for the pain you are going through. 1 year today we had our 12+ week scan to be told our baby had stop growing at 7+4 weeks - on Wednesday will be a year that I laid my precious baby to rest.
Spent this weekend in tears, yet feeling so blessed for my baby who is kicking & growing inside me x
My thoughts, love & prayers are with you all x envy

WildeRumpus Fri 12-Apr-13 18:16:58

Hey foof. Hope you ok. Haven't been on this board for months but like you the mc anniversary is coming up and was such a sad time. I definitely don't expect dh remember or really care too much if I.reminded him. I think he would feel.for what I went thru with.it all tho.

Glad this one is kicking away for you!

Schooldidi Mon 08-Apr-13 18:55:30

Thanks for your concern Lady. I'm fine I think. I've been busy all day, took the kids out for the morning with friends, then my parents came and collected both dds for a sleepover, then went for a walk, now we're having a cosy quiet evening without any children.

Nobody else has remembered that it's a year ago today, but that's ok, it's not really their grief.

LadyKinbote Mon 08-Apr-13 07:19:56

Schooldidi Hope you're okay today x

FoofFighter Sun 07-Apr-13 12:25:40

Thanks all, feeling better today although things are still frosty.

Stacey I know but everyone is so happy I don't want to bring it down which is why I didn't mention it, not that I didn't think I wouldn't be supported xx
Jodidi I was also thinking of all our sad little group of sacked Nov 12's who will be in this position right about now sad sending love and hugs to you for tomorrow thanks

Schooldidi Sat 06-Apr-13 22:20:29

I'm sorry Foof sad

It's mine on Monday. I don't expect dp to remember, I don't expect anyone to remember.

escorpion Sat 06-Apr-13 22:13:57

Thats really crappy then hun that your DP is acting in this way, I am so so sorry. Talk to us about it all you like.

stacey212528 Sat 06-Apr-13 21:10:49

Oh Foof, just saw this sad thoughts are with you. You know where we all are if you want to talk. All the unmumsnetty hugs I can muster are sent for you. flowers xxx

FoofFighter Sat 06-Apr-13 18:25:04

I'd understand him forgetting in time, but not this first one sad we had a row this afternoon (his fault entirely I might add) and he left me on my own in town.
anyway when I got home I said in case you forgot it's today, then went to bed in tears and he didn't bother to come and comfort me. Sat and played COD. Really not impressed I have to say.

thank you for talking to me x

escorpion Sat 06-Apr-13 18:02:36

I just wanted to add it is hard as other people do forget with time, and it hurts so I know how you feel. I think my DH became detached very quickly from the situation. I think people think once it is over we are just going to get on with it. But everyone deals with it in different ways.

escorpion Sat 06-Apr-13 18:00:31

Bless you. My anniversary will be 14th February of all days. Not sure how I am going to handle it to be honest. My DH didn´t understand how much it affected me until I hysterically wept one day. Is there something you could do to commemorate? Or write your thoughts down? x

FoofFighter Sat 06-Apr-13 17:38:56

nobody has remembered, not even my oh. Feel strange being upset when I have a baby kicking away in my stomach, would like it to go away just for today so I can think in peace if that makes sense?

IslaValargeone Sat 06-Apr-13 15:08:31

xxx

LadyKinbote Sat 06-Apr-13 15:08:25

So sorry. Hope you have some RL support x

escorpion Sat 06-Apr-13 15:02:43

Sending you love xx

FoofFighter Sat 06-Apr-13 12:27:03

Lost my little Widget sad

Love you always <3 xxxx

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