I miscarried my baby at 18 weeks +5 nearly 3 weeks ago. I went through labour and gave birth but had surgery due to complications with an undeliverable placenta and had to have 2 blood transfusions. This whole thing has completely floored me. We had the babies funeral on Friday and scattered the ashes today. Physically I don't feel too bad but this all still feels very raw emotionally. My DH is going back to work tomorrow (we work at same place) after having 3 weeks off with me. This has been really helpful for us both as we have had some much needed time together to talk to come to terms with everything.
We both work at the same place and our jobs are pretty responsible in that if we make a mistake it could have a massive impact on the lives of others. I also manage a group of 6 people and it can get stressful at times. One of the people I manage was due a week after me too which will be hard (although I don't begrudge her or anyone else, nor am I jealous- it will just be hard).
So my question is how long is reasonable to take off in this situation? I don't want to go back too soon but I also don't want to be seen to take the piss so to speak. How long have others taken off?
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Time off work after late miscarriage
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Nobhead · 11/03/2013 17:44
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