I posted on here last weekend as i was diagnosed with MMC at my 12wk scan. You lot were amazingly. Advice, empathy & care& i think i would have gone mad without MN last week.
I had the ERPC Wednesday. Physically Im fine. Strangely normal. I was wearing maternity clothes from about 10 Wks but Im back in my normal clothes now- feels almost like I've wasn't pregnant last week.
Emotionally i was in a state when i found out i had lost the baby. It was a terrible shock. After the ERPC i was relieved for it all to be over & done with. I've been busy the last few days, it was my dd 21st. Dp has been at home since Wednesday. Was waiting on finding out where dd11was going to Secondry school, usual mad house.
Tomorrow everything goes back to normal. Dp goes back to work, long shifts this week so not in til after dc in bed. Im back doing the school runs, I've got meetings at the school etc. Ds has ASD. Bringing dc to School clubs. Shopping, housework, got to sort out about work...your getting the picture.
I felt sort of ok but Im dreading being on my own (normally love my own company). The only way i can explain it, is that my heart feels sad. I've tried to rationialise how i feel but i can't because i can't make sense of why i had a mc.
I just need some advice about how people got back to 'normal'. How did you recover emotionally from a mc? What advice do you wish someone gave or did give to you?
TIA.
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Shellywelly1973 · 03/03/2013 10:41
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