Hi thought I would share my story after reading so many on here and also maybe get a few answers to some questions...
On the 16th Jan (Wednesday) I was 10 weeks pregnant and noticed some spotting/light blood loss after going to the loo. Apart from this I had no other symptoms,pain etc. just to be on the safe side I went to my local a&e on the advice of the ante natal department. After a 3 hour wait I was taken through and put into a bed and gown and told by a nurse that they would be sending me to the EPU. 10 mins later another member of staff came through and said they have got me an appointment for the following Monday (almost a week away!!) they were rude and unsympathetic when I questioned why it would take so long even to be seen but was sent on my way.
The following day the bleeding increased but my local EPU still refused to see me so I decided to book a private scan for that evening, I just couldn't bear to wait any longer to know what was happening.
At the scan the sonographer carried out the normal ultrasound but I knew something wasnt right when I watched the screen it just looked blank. She explained she wasn't picking anything up and offered to do a vaginal scan. She found a 6week old embryo but no heartbeat and the sac was measuring at 8 weeks.. The sonographer was brilliant and advised me of an emergency gynaecology unit at a close by hospital who she said would scan me and help to take the next steps. Leaving the clinic with my partner I just felt numb and slightly strange.
The next day we attended the EGU as advised and they were brilliant I was seen very quickly and another scan performed which confirmed what the previous scan had shown. Next we were taken to a room and things explained to us that as the baby was measuring at only 4mm that they would need to re-scan me a week later to check there was no development. I knew my dates were right as I knew exactly when we had conceived as we had been ttc for 8 months. I couldn't believe I was going to have to wait a week for an erpc (my chosen method of management) but I understood the reasons why they had to check.
The week between was hell the bleeding became so heavy and I was in constant pain I returned to the EGU several times and was scanned and checked over and all my questions answered. I thought I may had passed everything as I was bleeding heavily with large clots sorry if tmi! But at my scan the following week I hadn't and was booked in for an ERPC 2 days later.
The procedure itself was fine apart from my general apprehension about surgery and my hormones and emotions were everywhere. The day after and for the following week I bled like a normal quite light period with not much pain at all all though at times the bleeding was quite dark brown. I wondered if maybe because I had bled so heavily and for so long before the erpc that was the reason I was only bleeding lightly after.
After a week the bleeding stopped and a few days later my partner and I DTD for the first time although I did find it slightly uncomfortable and felt like it was very deep (sorry didn't know how else to describe that ha!) so we left it a few more days before doing it again. By this point I had been feeling uncomfortable in the area around my left ovary but out it down to things going back to normal. When we DTD for the 2nd time I was fine during but after I ended up crippled over in agony with pains again around my ovary/uterus. I used an electric heat pad - if anyone is going through MC I really recommend one of these its like a small piece of electric blanket and had been my best friend over those weeks!!! And eventually the pains subsided and we went straight to EGU and they booked me for a scan a day later (this Monday just gone)
At the scan the sonographer said everything looked fine and the bleeding had gone. The. She said there is a cyst on your left side, she didn't say my ovary and I was in shock so forgot to ask. She said this is normal and should break down on its own?.?? Following the scan we got to see the nurse who talks you through the scan and she said everything looks fine and that they think I have ovulated? I said the sonographer hadn't mentioned this but had said there was a cyst?! The nurse said yes this is what we think is your ovulation?! I'm now really confused has anyone heard of this???
Emotionally I'm now feeing much better and physically too - I guess it does get easier!
Sorry for the long post but I thought maybe someone might find it helpful to read if going through the same. I hope you all get the babies you are wishing for xxx
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LittleMiss1602 · 12/02/2013 20:42
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