Hi, I had a MMC diagnosed by scan at 12.3wks. Was told baby had died at 8.4 wks. Was given options of D&C, medical management or leaving nature take it's course. This was on 28th Dec but have not miscarried yet. Am due in for another scan in the morning but think the purpose of the scan was more to check that I was after passing everything if miscarriage occured.
I had really hoped that nature would have taken it's course but not feel I will have to look at either MM or D&C.
I feel really confused about what to do, part of me really wants to wait as I feel this option might be me more closure. However reading the stories on here has also been a real eye opener as I hadn't really realised what was involved in miscarrying naturally. I'm worried about the sac getting stuck or severe blood loss etc after reading this happening to others.
I know nobody can tell me what to do but I was just looking for some advice as I feel presurised into making a decision. Also I may be wrong on this but I feel other people are very uncomfortable at the idea of me still having baby inside and would prefer me to have it over with. I don't want to have any regrets though so I feel it's very important for me to make the right decision for myself. This was my last baby so I don't feel the need to protect my womb for future pregnancies etc but feel that makes this decision even more important for me.
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startingovernow · 11/01/2013 00:29
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