Lj123 My experience of therapy is exactly that, and I think it may have saved my life. I needed a safe place to go and rage and blubber and get it all out. Took about six months of bi-weekly visits. It was difficult and terribly scary to discover how angry I was about pregnancy loss.
Op, I hope you find a way through, however you do it.
I'm sorry to hear you have also suffered. I have been offered counselling but I can't sit and talk at all it would be a waste of time, I'd just be a blubbering mess. I can't help but feel anger when others tell me they are expecting or when I see someone who is pregnant and already has children, someone who recently told me they where expecting already has three children and I can't help but feel they are being greedy, I know it's not the case but its how it's attaching me at the moment.xx
Hi ok I've had 2 ectopics one with emergency surgery and 1 treated with chemo and 2 mc so I do understand the awful pain in your heart. Physical healing took about 6 weeks. Emotionally 18 months later I can still have bad days. I learn to tell someone when it gets to me and I seem to let of the pain easier. Counselling helped.
Ask for a referral to see a specialist for tests . Big hugs x
I recently had emergency surgery to remove my ruptured tube and my poor little baby, I was almost 7 weeks then. I keep having flash backs which scare me! I can't get the picture of the baby I was shown out of my mind, the little eye and shadow in body( guessing heart) . Almost arms and legs! I'm 22 and this is my 4th pregnancy loss. People around me are expecting all the time, almost every other person I know How have you guys dealt with your loss?