I'd had very slight bleeding so decided to go for an early scan at 8wks, the scan showed no growth from 7 weeks, I re booked a 2nd scan for the wk after but still no development. My partner and I wanted to make sure the hospital hadn't made a mistake so we decided to leave it two wks and have another scan but worst fears had been confirmed no growth or heartbeat.
I had what is known as a silent miscarriage were the baby hadn't survived but hadn't yet left the womb, We had to decide what the next stage would be.
We were told about medical management which sounded the safest way, it was a tablet 48hrs before being admitted to hospital for 3 stages of tablets which would allow the miscarriage to happen.
I admit if I had know what lay ahead I would have through the D&C option.
The tablets would cause what I was told would be period pains but when going through it the midwives said il be feeling contractions and my body would tell me to push so in other words labour. It was both painful and emotional through the entire 2days. It was the hardest 2days of my life we were re living the moment we were told we had lost our baby all over again. Its been 3 days and I can't stop crying or blaming myself I have a 7yr old who has been my rock and I don't know what I would have done without her or my partner.
Anyone who has or is experiencing this will understand the pain and loss I just wanted to but this on to make people aware to fully look into the medical management before deciding.
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Silent Miscarriage has broken my heart x
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ohara2011 · 02/12/2011 00:52
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