I'm 8.4 (or was I suppose) today, but 2 days ago I had brown spotting. Went to EPU yesterday and had a scan and they found 2 embryos with no heart beat which only measured 6 weeks. Life is shit isn't it sometimes?
I'm not bleeding properly yet, when will it start? All I've got is brown so far, no fresh red stuff. I'm hoping it will all come naturally and soon.
They also said that they could speed it along with some drugs. Does anyone know what these do? Do they rescan before you take them just to double check? How long do they take to work?
They also said I could have a D&C but I don't want that if pos.
I had a normal MC at 4+6 which was just like a normal period. Will it be worse this time as I was further along?
I don't know what to do. We're going on holiday on 7 September and want it all over by then.
I've got a couple of days off because the nanny is on hols, but I'm supposed to be at work on Thursday and its quite important. We've got a pile of guests coming next Saturday to stay overnight and its been really difficult to arrange, so I don't want to let them down either. I've got a heap of cooking to do which I was planning on doing on Friday which is my day off. To be honest, they will help me take my mind of it, and I don't want to cancel and then have to explain to them why. Apart from my mum no one knows I was pregnant.
I'm totally at a loss what to do. Has anyone else been in this position? What do you think I should do? I wish I could just start bleeing.
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2 embryos, no heart beat, stopped developing at 6 weeks, I'm now 8 weeks and haven't miscarried yet - don't know what to do - help!
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zebedeethezebra · 21/08/2011 18:54
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