The hospital I went to didn't seem to be set up to deal with those sufffering a m/c at all. Each time I miscarried (3 times) it was discovered at a scan. The atmosphere became silent and apprehensive and I actually came to dread being in the scan room. When no heartbeat was discovered they then moved on to an internal scan and my husband was asked to leave the room. At the time we thought nothing of it, but on reflection I wonder why...and it wasn't exactly pleasant for him to be sent out of the room to sit and wonder.
After discovering that it was a m/c we were ushered into the nurses staff room to wait until they had a place for me on a ward. My husband and I were understandably upset, and there would be nurses popping into their staff room to pick up things or even to take their break. In day time hours there was a ward for those in my situation. After clinic hours, however, they sent you to the maternity ward. They have two wards for maternity and when you go in to have your child you are admitted according to where you live. If you go in with complications they ensure that you are admitted to the opposite ward to where you would go if you were in labour and they try to give you a private-ish bed, but it is not pleasant to be surrounded by many pregnant people and those who have had their babies.
One doctor told me "You are busy having a miscarriage" and told me to decide whether I wanted a d&c or not. I didn't know any better at the time and chose to go home...it was not a pleasant experience and it took ages for my cycle to settle down afterwards. My subsequent m/cs were managed by surgery and it was much easier.
That said: I nearly died at the same hospital when finally giving birth to my DD1 and they left me alone to hold her after I woke when I was extremely woozy from blood loss the next morning. How she is still here I don't know!
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Was your hospital set up to cope with those who were miscarrying?
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2kidsintow · 08/07/2011 22:53
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