I read a post a little while ago from a poster who'd miscarried for the first time and was sick of people telling her about their miscarriage experience- especially as they already had children when they miscarried.
I was struck at how unfair this post was. I have just miscarried for the first time after having a dc 2 years ago. The pain, guilt and the loss of a lot of hopes and dreams could not be any greater. I understand that at least I have a child, so I don't have the worry that I might not be able to have children. But it still hurts so much and i worry that my dc will never have the experience of growing up with a sibling.
My point is that it's a traumatic event for everyone and this is not negated just because one might already have a child. Miscarriage is miscarriage...
I'm sick of being told how lucky I am at time when I feel sooooo crap.
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babytantrums · 07/06/2011 17:05
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