I went for my 12 week scan on Monday and was told my baby's heart stopped at 8 weeks. Just had an evac today. I hate that word but can't think of a better one.
I had no warning, still being sick this morning. My body still felt pregnant and held on to my baby for weeks, which has made it all very hard to accept. I have to accept it now, the painkillers and anesthetic are wearing off, so I've a constant reminder that my baby is not nestled in my womb any more.
I'm feeling very raw and very guilty. Everyone keeps telling me it's just nature but I was very sick recently and can't help thinking of all the things I did and didn't do. I didn't eat or drink much for about 4 days. I lifted my 2 year old. I did some gardening. It's silly I know but these are the things going through my head.
That and how my baby will never have those firsts that my dd had. And will never get to meet us. We would have loved him/her so much.
And worst is, I have nothing to remember him/her by, no scan picture, just my pregnancy notes and some leaflets.
God but this is hard. I'm sorry if I'm upsetting anyone. I just felt I needed to write some of this down.
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Tokyotwist · 02/02/2011 19:55
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