Just had my first mc over last weekend, my dp has been so great but now he's starting to annoy me. Got a lot of support from family and everyone is giving me lots of hugs etc. He on the other hand just seems to keep repeating 'it just wasnt meant to be' &thats it. I thought he might be a bit more upset than he appears to be, he was so excited about being a dad again. We went to see my uncle today who has just had a baby, it was hard but Im so close to my uncle that I was sooooo happy for him. My dp asked me how I felt after we left wtf?! I said it was upsetting but I suppose Ill feel like this for a while. He said 'well we can try again as soon as your feeling right'. How can he say this to me when Im still having 'stuff' falling out of me (sorry tmi). Feel fine until I go to the toilet and look at my san pad and it hits me all over again. Feel like it will never end and I cant believe how 'cool' he seems to be over this. Sorry its long, just needed to get this off my chest.
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