Long time since I've been on mumsnet, as my hideous divorce has taken over my entire life just dealing with all the threads my ex-h makes.
He lives in London and I live in Kent. I had been taking the kids up there on Fridays and collecting them on Sundays, for his Contact visits. Last week he decided to stop paying me any maintenance AT ALL. So I told him I cld no longer afford the train tickets and he'd have to collect the kids himself.
He has gone beserk about this and is making all kinds of threats about how he's going to lodge a complaint with the court that I am "denying access", how I will "be made to pay" for this, that the cost of his train tickets (he earns well over £100K p.a!) will be deducted from any final settlement I get, and so on.
I am pretty sure that all I have to do is facilitate contact, and that it's not my responsibility to actually take the kids to and from. But I'm not sure. Can anyone tell me?
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Whose responsibility is it to take and return children for Contact visits?
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lulupop · 01/08/2005 09:24
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