where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

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Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 18:08:36

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet? grin

SingleMum01 Sun 18-Apr-10 18:17:38

Hi all, marking my place

Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 18:22:17

sm-have fun tonight

not much going on for me, been chatting most of today to big goggles on msn, still planning to meet friday night. Survived the babysitting last night and still havent put my washing away today blush

kdk Sun 18-Apr-10 19:11:42

marking my place - and about to go and make a mushroom omelette for supper ...

Saw the infidel last night - quite amusing and Omid Djalili very funny.

Been chatting a bit to bluebeard - who told me i have spirit and don't hide behind a world-weary mask - shows how little he knows me, eh?

aseriouslyblondemoment Sun 18-Apr-10 19:19:40

maybe he's met rather dull wet women up til now kdk?
betty i've put mine all away
<adjusts halo>
unfortunately the empty laundry basket of yesterday is now heaving againsad
where you off to for your date with goggles?
and what top do you think sm01 has chosen?

Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 19:22:27

not sure where we're meeting yet, prob just for a drink.

I think sm went for the low cut top wink

I really must get off my behind and put it all away!

aseriouslyblondemoment Sun 18-Apr-10 19:24:04

how you feeling about this one?excited or not?
sm01 mentioned that it was a school night iircgrin

Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 19:31:02

Erm I dont know after the last few am a bit meh about it all but have been chatting all day, which has been very easy but I've had that before and then didnt fancy them so not sure.

Not on a school night lol! grin

sincitylover Sun 18-Apr-10 19:42:06

hi just marking my place (no 20!!)

Had busy weekend with work yesterday morning and dcs.

Def think I have SAD because with this weather I feel 100% better and more positive. Have also enjoyed the break from dcs over the easter hols (prob had about nine nights off out of sixteen).

I have gone out most nights, caught up with friends, drunk too much and had fun with a capital F.

Still glance at the dating sites but am not talking to anyone.

sm - enjoy your date

belle - ok.. i'm against the grain here... but i wonder if he's too laid back for you in the contact. as you do seem a bit up and down with where you stand due to his contact. which we have discussed before on here isn't healthy feeling.

asbm - <waves> i seen motorola last night. he popped over for a dvd and headed off. just a wee visit.. as i get used to this not smoking i def notice i am liking him more again blush.. i think on sat he was just in the firing line for my terrible temper i was having with quitting blushoh.. and on sat i met 1 of his friends. nice friends. agree with what you say about meeting friends and family are a good indicator.

sm - have you met any of his friends.??

betty - what you doing with goggles?

kdk - bluebeard... so he's expecting a fiesty opinionated date then?

oh... and forces....still trying to get back on my good side hmm

ninah Sun 18-Apr-10 19:46:50

not read end of old thread so hope have not missed owt
do you really put your washing away the same day you do it, always? blush
to be fair I have decorated dd's room today (only took 3 years to get to) and i have strimmers wrist from all the gardening I've done
but the washing is still piled on a chair and the ironing is bursting out of a cupboard
we get a few hand me downs which is nice but I think i need to be more selective as I can't keep up with all the clothes they have
am v bad at decluttering
wonder how sm1 is getting on
bluebeard sounds a bit of a smoothie kdk
Must go and do college work now

scl - you have SAD which makes you happy this time of year grin

ninah Sun 18-Apr-10 19:48:55

oh hi sin, has been a while glad you are feeling better
juicy hmm at forces, glad motorola is still working out, why did you call him that btw?

ninah - sm asked same thing on last thread. to do with me thinking he worked for motorola. turned out he worked for somewhere else and i wasn't paying attention when he told me wink

lou33 Sun 18-Apr-10 20:16:42

cor part 20 already!

i have had a busy weekend, berkshire to get boris clipped then kent to get a bike bf had bought on ebay yesterday

today we took boris back to london, then came back and took the kids to a family dog show, then swimming, now i am getting them ready for bed for the back to school run tomorrow

i wont be doing it though as i will be in hospital having an operation

bf has taken time off work to do it for me

wish me luck

good luck lou smile

kdk Sun 18-Apr-10 20:27:12

good luck Lou, let us know (or get bf!) how it went!

@ ninah, am not sure - spoke to him on phone yesterday - think some of it is act - says he's had 11 relationships - including 3 marriages and 'liaisons' - if being honest, not exactly player material ... am trying to keep open mind ie not jump to conclusions or big it up into something it isn't - though did say that chance of anything (untoward) happening given our relative geographical locations and fact we have five children under age of 10 between us and no live-in help, seems pretty remote!

kdk - 5 kids under 10yo shock ... omg. imagine if you did get togethershock <faints at thought>

my sister has a friend who's got 9 dc between her and her dh(some hers,some his, some theirs iykwim).. ALL living with them

kdk Sun 18-Apr-10 20:53:41

well only 2 of them are mine - and I'm not having any more!

aseriouslyblondemoment Sun 18-Apr-10 21:11:32

<waves to ninah>
yes i did all the -crap-- huge laundry in one daysad
promise i will email this week,it's shamefully long overdue..blush
lou all the best from me,so glad bf is on hand to help out and i know that you've got good kids who will do their bitsmile
scl thank god you've had some me time and used it for your own good instead of skivvving cleaning etc like me,hope exh didn't return the dcs with a list of comments like mine usually does{big 2 fingers emoticon}
kdk if you've got onto phoning now then you must be interested a bit?but hey like juicy said omg all those kids!!shock

kdk Sun 18-Apr-10 21:28:32

Asbm - am a bit interested - just - maybe a bit dubious - but hey, would be more than happy to be proved wrong .. but like I said - too many kids - and he's got three more that live with his (first) ex! They're pretty much grown up though - eldest is 18 and others are I think 12 and 15 though could be wrong ...

Monty100 Sun 18-Apr-10 21:45:27

Hello everybody smile

Lou good luck for tomorrow. Hope all goes well with op and dp and dcs will no doubt not let you down.

Kdk - you're def sounding interested

Juice - all ok now then?

SM - I hope you took a cardie (lol) was out earlier and it turned ffffffreezing!

Betty - have you put your laundry away yet. grin

Hi Belle Ninah SCL and everybody.

Houseviewing was meh. Doll's house person was driving off as I got there I was 10 mins late, had gone and picked up dp, he drove, stopped for petrol etc grrrr. Other house horrid lol. (But I knew that).

Kids back tomorrow, ds still not in the shower. Jeeze. <goes off to shout upstairs again>

Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 21:46:38

Good luck with the op Lou!

scl-glad to hear your feeling a bit brighter, I know a couple of people who suffer from that SAD.

ninah-dont worry i still havent put my washing away and mine was from yest lol im v bad at decluttering too although Im aiming to have a big declutter soon!grin

juice-i think motorola still sounds like a goodun, and as for forces hmm

asbm-i always seem to spend child free time cleaning! think its cos its the only time they arent right behind you messing it up again!

I've just been asked for a drink by someone else now lol, been chatting to this bloke on fb for a few months now. will call him boilerman, he seems nice didnt think he was interested but his messages have got more frequent this week, think it might have been cos he was working away and now he's not. we shall see, is worth a meet anyway!

Betty79 Sun 18-Apr-10 21:48:12

monty-you posted as i was tpying, sorry to hear house viewing wasnt great! as for washing...erm no blush

aseriouslyblondemoment Sun 18-Apr-10 21:53:39

kdk at least you're clued up(thank god!)so go along with an open mind and all the usual getoutclauses friend a calling stuff
actually,our lovely janos was texting me prior to my first date with dp and during, tho had rotten signal so those texts weren't received on time not that it was an issue mindwink
but have had other dates where i couldn't pick up iyswim...and omg would i have so loved to have done...shock
and i also admit to receiving texts(tho on silent)from a significant ex whilst on a date
and slyly returning themblush

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