thesunshinesbrightly
Tue 03-Nov-09 22:49:41
I am single, out of a controlling relationship, i swore i would never like a man again, but i do, but i dont know if he likes me, i dont know if i want a relationship, but i do like him, do i tell him or leave it be, sorry this is gibberish, any advice welcome, thankyou.
jamestkirk
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:14:20
ask him out - if he says yes then get to know each other and see where it goes - who knows - you might both be totally 

thesunshinesbrightly
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:32:27
thankyou for replying, i thought i was alone
I dunno, do i really what too get into all that, what if he doesnt like me? i'm not used to rejection, that does sound awful doesnt it 
jamestkirk
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:44:30
dont worry - he might like the sound of your gibberish 
do a dummy run on me - see what you think 
thesunshinesbrightly
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:48:18
i'm not really this gibberish.
cant do it,aint i awful.
jamestkirk
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:49:41
youre terrible!!
i feel so let down - theres tears and everything
thesunshinesbrightly
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:50:07
hmm maybe, i will have some dutch courage the weekend, and who knows, oh god then i will be a gibberish drunk!!!!
thesunshinesbrightly
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:51:17
non MN <<<hug>>> there, there, you should teach better then shouldnt ya 
jamestkirk
Tue 03-Nov-09 23:56:45
teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change
tho the hug has helped me get over it 
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:04:14
teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change
see, i cant even string a sentence together, what hope do i have, also, hope you were joking, because now i feel guilty.
<<kisses feet>>
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:07:07
See i'm terrible, i am just going too crawl back in my hole, why i am like this? very strange
it's not like i havent had my fair share of men( that isnt like how i have written)
<<crawls back in hole>>
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:13:52
you really should ask this guy out - or me - cos youve got me totally 
and now i'm struggling to put a snetence together - must be all the feet kissing
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:17:58
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:20:03
or what if he doesn't pull those faces and just tells me i am a raving loony!!!!!
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:23:46
i know - next time you think youll see him, take your mn carrier bag. just flash it at him and bat your eyelids - if he goes
- then youll know its me
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:26:13
erm....you are a raving loony
- sure he wont mind - can be quite an endearing feature 
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:28:56
thankyou for your help.
ok question, what would you say if a gibberish wreck came too you and said 'how's about it love'
or even better, what shall i say? i dont normally do the asking, why hasnt he asked me? surely that must be a sign he doesnt like me??
i dont like me either i'm a nutter, i have just confirmed it, and now you will avoid threads with my name in fear i will talk too you.
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:31:44
oh my god! i must stay clear of caffine late at night, does nothing for me 
<<skips off happily to bed>>
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:37:25
maybe he's admiring you from afar and wouldnt think youd ever be interested so doesnt want to make a fool of himself - remember there was tears and everything earlier when i was let down with a thud
as for the 'hows about it love' - sighhh 
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:38:58
wondered what you were running on - happy skipping and sweet dreams 
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:43:17
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:50:35
you did have me with it - the sighhh was me swooning
try it on your fella - it cant fail
thesunshinesbrightly
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:56:22
Thankyou, you are a nice bloke (dont get many of them
)
bid you goodnight, and i admire you for talking to a raving loony 
jamestkirk
Wed 04-Nov-09 00:59:56
oh shucks 
nite to you too - from your fellow loon 
jamestkirk
Thu 05-Nov-09 22:57:31
you found any dutch courage yet?
am just so on the edge of my seat waiting to hear if he turned and ran