Hi, I used to post a little bit when my son was a baby (now 2).
My H and I split up 4 months ago - very messy, in short our relationship had deteriorated since we had DS - he couldn't cope with the responsibility. Gradually things got worse and worse he was using cocaine a lot and staying out really late, I kept asking if there was someone else and he denied it. We were supposed to be moving to amsterdam as a family in January, 10 days before we packed up and left I discovered his credit card bill and guess what. He confessed all and he had been seeing this other woman for 7 months (she is 6 years older than him and married, no kids).
So my world as I knew it fell apart but in a way I was relieved, i didn't have to try and make this awful relationship work any more and could just get on and do things my way. 4 months later and i feel like it has all hit me like a brick wall and i can't stop crying and missing him and being lonely. Intellectually i know i am better off without him but my emotions just won't catch up ...
Does that make any sense? thanks for reading if you are still here.
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oiseau · 11/05/2005 16:07
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