I went through a miserable time in the run up to and through the divorce process, I have made myself and the dc a new home and slowly rebuilt my sense of 'me'. He is trying so hard to be friendly again but it's all beyond that for me now and he is weaving himself into my space. Contact with dc is not prearranged or regular. It's not infrequent now (it was when we first moved out) just irregular. He seems to think seeing the dc should include me too. "Seeing everyone" he calls it. At my home. Tomorrow he has suggested he is bringing food. If I am less than enthusiastic I'm "making a big deal out of it".
But it's my space and I don't want it altered.
I have to grit my teeth and let it go for the sake of the dc.
Sorry - just needed a rant.
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I just don't want him in my space!!
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citronella · 13/06/2009 14:58
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