hi i need some advice.
split up with X last week,he was emotionally abusive and its taken me a few months to get him to leave.
so far hes only been gone 4 days but hes acting like we are still together.
he isnt working and is living off half our savings i gave him, (only a few hundred quid but he was entitiled to half of it).
today he turned up and used DD,s hairbrush to brush his hair claiming he hasnt been able to buy one yet
he brought dd back and said did i mind if he made himself a cup of tea as he handnt had one all day- i was making the tea and didnt want to cause a scene in front of the DC so i said ok.
then he said he didnt know what he was going to eat for his tea,dropping mega hints about me giving him some (i didnt)
he hung around until i put the DC,s tea out and then relucatantly went.
i asked DD where she,d been today and she said
The park
his brothers
his sisters
his dads
his house
now he only had her for just over 4 hours and she has ASD and im not happy about that.
i know he will do anything to get a reaction and i dont want to give him one but i feel its grossly unfair to do this to DD,she needs strict routines and advance notice,im not sure what to do about it really,i think he wants an argument and is trying to provoke me into one.
we are relate on friday,weve been having seperation counselling so i might bring it up then but not sure.
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freeasabird · 31/05/2009 22:39
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